Japan is known for being clean, polite, and well-ordered. Pero behind that is a culture of quiet rules — small things that locals naturally follow, but foreigners usually miss.

So before ka pa mapatinginan ng matindi sa tren, here’s 10 common etiquette mistakes in Japan, and how to avoid them.

1. Don’t Hand Cash Directly — Use the Tray

Laging may maliit na tray sa cashier counter. Hindi ito display — it’s where you’re supposed to put your payment. Sa Japan, handing money directly into someone’s hand, especially in shops or restaurants, feels too forward.

Just place your cash or card on the tray, let the staff take it from there. Small gesture, big respect.

2. Keep PDA to a Minimum

Holding hands? Okay lang. Pero anything more — hugging, kissing, leaning on your partner — isn’t really done in public, especially in trains, parks, or family areas.

It’s not illegal, pero it makes people uncomfortable. Japan values emotional restraint in public spaces. Kaya if you’re traveling with your SO, just keep things low-key.

3. Maligo bago maligo 😂

Kung pupunta ka sa onsen (hot spring) or sento (public bath), remember: you need to clean yourself first — as in, full-body wash and rinse — before soaking in the tub.

Bakit? Because the tub is for relaxing, not for scrubbing. So wash thoroughly at the shower area, rinse off, and only then can you enjoy the bath. Don’t let your towel touch the water, either.

4. Don’t Tip — It’s Not Part of the Culture

Probably alam mo na 'to: In Japan, tipping is generally not done. Most staff see good service as part of the job — no need for extra cash. In fact, giving a tip might make them confused or uncomfortable.

If you want to show gratitude, say a sincere “arigatou gozaimasu” and come back as a repeat customer. That’s the best compliment you can give.

5. Always Follow the Queue

Japan takes lines seriously. Whether sa train, escalator, or even at a convenience store, everyone lines up properly. In Tokyo, people stand on the left side of the escalator and walk on the right. In Osaka, it’s the other way around.

Observe what people around you are doing, then follow. Huwag sumingit. Even if you're in a rush.

6. Don’t Pass Food from Chopsticks to Chopsticks

This resembles a Japanese funeral ritual😱. When passing food directly from your chopsticks to someone else’s, you’re unintentionally mimicking the way bones are passed during cremation ceremonies.

It’s an innocent mistake, but it can be awkward. Best to use the opposite end of your chopsticks or just offer the plate.

7. Avoid Strong Perfume or Cologne

In Japan, scentless = clean. Wearing strong fragrances — kahit mabango — can be seen as disruptive. Especially in enclosed spaces like trains or elevators, people may quietly move away.

So if you wear perfume, go for light, barely-there scents. And yes, wear deodorant — but don’t overdo it on the body spray.

8. No Blowing Your Nose in Public

Sa Japan, it’s considered rude (sa Pinas ba?🤭) — especially in quiet spaces like trains, classrooms, or offices.

What most locals do: sniffle quietly and wait until they can step into a restroom or private space. Wearing a mask also helps, especially during allergy season.

9. Use Honorifics Like “-san”

In Japan, using titles like “-san” is basic politeness. Calling someone just by their first name, without a title, can come across as disrespectful — unless close friends na kayo.

If unsure, default to “-san.” And if you slip up, a quick “shitsurei shimasu” (excuse me) goes a long way.

10. Use Both Hands When Giving or Receiving Items

Whether it’s a business card, payment, or small gift — use two hands. It shows that you’re present and respectful. One-hand exchanges, especially in formal settings, can feel lazy or careless.

Even at convenience stores, you’ll notice staff returning your change with two hands. Follow their lead.

Final Thoughts: Respect is the Rule

Wala naman nageexpect sa 'tin to get everything right. What matters is that you try to be observant, respectful, and willing to adjust. Most locals are kind and patient, especially if they see you’re making the effort.

So don’t stress too much — just stay aware. That alone makes you a much better guest than most.

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